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How to Find Your Optimism

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Optimistic- hopeful and confident about the future.

optimisticEach day we all make a choice. Either we will be positive, or we will be harmful in the way they view our lives and the situations we experience. I hope we will follow an optimistic mindset and look at the positive side of events. I wish this for us because life is a much more enjoyable experience when you look for the good, and it is always there. Sometimes you have to look hard to see it, but the positive is still there. I would like you to always be hopeful and confident in the future that you face in your thoughts, words, and actions. (See Video)

What Does it Mean to be Optimistic?

In every moment, situation, and interaction, we are faced with a choice to be positive or negative. Life sometimes makes it impossible to be optimistic because you are experiencing something negative. We all experience loss, and in that loss, there is pain, and nobody likes pain. We try to avoid pain. It is easy to slip into a world where you expect there to be pain all the time. Then when the pain doesn’t come or is not as bad as you imagined, you aren’t disappointed. Unfortunately, that attitude harms your life, all those you deal with, and your life. Your negative thoughts of a dark and painful future of not getting your hopes up and expecting the worst will diminish your experience and the experience of all those people you deal with daily.

The optimistic choice is always available to you right there with the negative. It takes work, and it is hard to be consciously hopeful about your future when the now seems to be painful and full of things you can’t count on. The present is what it is, and the end will be what you make it. Your ability to maintain optimism can create something fantastic for you, and a negative mindset can only destroy it. That is your choice, and it will remain a choice until the end of your human experience.

Ways to be Optimistic

So when you look at today, and you are dealing with the death of a loved one, the loss of a job, the disappointment that life brings when things don’t work optimisticout as we wish. Recognize what is happening. Deal with it appropriately and do what you have to do to survive. We maintain hope and positivity about the future. Change is going to happen, and some of them are painful. That is life. Don’t let fear run your existence; you will accomplish very little and enjoy even less.

The situations we face are what we face. Whether they are ultimately positive or negative is a value we assign them. Sometimes people are faced with hardships to provide the tools and skills they will need on the path to greatness. Once you lose everything, you have nothing to lose. Sometimes that is the path a person needs to face. There are many terrible things in the world that we shouldn’t have to face, but life doesn’t give us the option of what we face. It gives us the choice of how we deal with what we face. I wish people the courage to face adversity with optimism that tomorrow will be better and they can recover. Because you can, the choice to quit because of fear or keep trying with optimism is always there, and I hope you will always choose to be optimistic.

How to Remain Optimistic

The media perpetuate enough negative messages out there. These messages of fear are all around you and are designed to control you and your behavior. I doubt that you are not good enough. Fear that you don’t fit in. Fear that you are not rich enough. Fear that you are not enough, period. Look at the messages you are getting in every advertisement you see. They optimisticare designed to manipulate you in some way. Don’t believe that hype. To me, there is something extraordinary, beautiful, and hopeful in the person who can maintain their optimism in the face of a cynical world.

Look at the stories of disaster and tragedy that the national media presents you with as often as possible. These stories are tragic and terrible, but what good does it do to be cynical about all people and situations because of one unfortunate incident? They perpetuate fear to control you, be afraid, and you are easily manipulated. Be optimistic and hopeful; you are a wildcard that might change the world. Be a wildcard and change the world, please! That is my most significant optimism, which lies in the hands and hearts of others and their ability to do great things and be optimistic about the world. Also, in my hands, I want to be the best I can be despite challenging situations of loss and pain.

Be Optimistic

It will not always be easy to maintain an optimistic outlook on life as new dramatic situations enter it. But there is power in being happy and maintaining positivity that will propel you through tough times. It will allow you to armor against tragedy and will enable you to hold up those you love when all would like to turn to the negative. It starts with a consistent and straightforward consciousness about your thoughts, words, and actions. To look to the good and be grateful for what you have in situations that seem contrary.

More Optimistic Quotes

Being optimistic, anything is possible, and being negative little is. Choose to enjoy the unlimited possibilities of being joyful. 

“Optimism doesn’t wait on facts, and it deals with prospects.” ―Norman Cousin.

“Be fanatically positive and militantly optimistic. If something is not to your liking, change your liking.” ―Rick Steves.

“No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new heaven to the human spirit.” ―Helen Keller.

 

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Learning About My Best Self

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We need to find someone who can see us at our best and know that whatever we set our minds to, we have the power and ability to accomplish. t isn’t that we can’t be great without them, or we are less talented if they are not on your side, recognizing it. It is a fact. In their eyes, you have always seen the best version of yourself, and in that version, you could see all of your dreams becoming a reality. W n my actions, thoughts, and goals are reflected in me, I know I can handle adversity, manage setbacks, and create whatever situation I need to succeed. Do you believe in me?

As We Learn

The process starts when we are young and figure out precisely what our talents are and where we want them to go. Am I an astronaught? Am I a writer? Am I a professional athlete? Whatever the dream of childhood was a vital part of determining if that dream was realized in the end or discarded like flavorless bubble gum, it is the people who showed a belief in you and confidence in your talent. Some here, someone here you and see the incredible kindness, talent, joy, and power in your age to follow through with it all.

The learning process continues throughout your life as you get older, and we think we don’t need this type of encouragement anymore. But he joke theus, as a belief of someone you care about in your talent and abilities becomes even more critical as you grow older—you e m e set in your ways. You h ve become more in tune with what fills your cup of skills, but it takes more momentum to get you started, and confidence at any age is the difference between a good start and an excellent finish. Hearing, “I believe in you, and I know you can do it,” may provide that power and confidence to persevere through all of your natural questions, even in me.

 The Perfect You

Nobody in the world is perfect. Everyo e is Everyof this, from the beginning of our experience in life. But it sn’t about being perfect. If we w re all perfect, then where would the excitement be? Where w uld the challenge come from? Each pe on has a bucket of talent they carry daily. Some have so much it can become confusing. Our impe ections are the things that provide the need for us to hone our skills and develop ourselves to the point we can recognize which particular talents in our bucket need to be allowed to bloom in a way that will show our greatness.

Each day, a person can find their voice and express themselves in a way that will provide a unique ripple in the calm pool of life. The biggest challenge for most of us is knowing we have the skill to create that piece of art, write that song, sing in that way, or do whatever we want. The direct belief someone else has for your skill may push a hobby into a calling and an interest in a career. We should see ourselves through the eyes of someone who love and believes in us. Not because they have to, but because they can’t help but recognize the possibility of your life and the contribution you will make. If you get out of your way, take action, and become the person you were born to be. Do you believe in me?

Be Your Best

Life can deal with harsh blows, and we all deal with disappointment and loss. My life is n  different. But I can’t help but look at people I meet and immediately see their potential. It is a small window of accomplishment before them, but for others, there is a vast ocean of opportunity on their horizon. But they do not see it, and you can’t make them see it until they choose to do so themselves. You can try to have them read that book, listen to that thing, or create it. But until they decide they want to be great, you can’t help them.

It is one of the unique choices we make as human beings. What am I going to be? Who am I? That choice is never complete until you end the game of life and move to another level of your life. I know we are in control of ourselves and responsible for our choices and actions. That being said, sometimes it is one supportive word or meaningful conversation that allows us to develop into the best version of ourselves. That person may change the world. I see the talent in you and know if you create a vision for it and follow it, there is no limit to what you can create and accomplish. I know that for yself as well. Do you believe in me?

“There is no greater power and support you can give someone than to look them in the eye, and with sincerity/conviction say, ‘I believe in you.” ― Ken Poirot

“You will get what you wish to have.” ― Lailah Gifty Akita

“I don’t even think you know how great you really are. I believe in you “-Dick Vermeil

“Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”–A. A. Milne