The Forty one Year Fight

Mike Martin and I have been friends for forty one years.  There are not many people in the

41 year fight
Even though Mike is always wrong, he still argues with me all the time. He is so stubborn.

world outside of your family that you have known your entire life, and still call them your friend. I am fortunate to have had a friend for most of my life, who is cantankerous, stubborn and is often not right about anything! He would tell you the same thing about me.  We work together right now and that leads to many conflicts about virtually every subject.  When I started this new Picture Project I was in between two of these conflicts, so it only made sense that the first picture should be a symbol of the fights we have on most days.  These “fights” are more philosophical battles, where we do not agree on much of anything.  But when the chips are down, I know I can count on him and he on me.

The core of our conflict has boiled down to the essence of our philosophies, and all of our conflicts stem from this premise:

My Philosohpy: That there is a right and a wrong, that everyone deep down knows it and that morality is definite and binding.  (he refers to this as black and white)

Mike Martin Philosophy:  That life is lived on a continuum of gray area, sometimes things are right, sometimes wrong depending on the circumstances.  (I refer to this as the whatever way the wind blows philosophy)

I could go into each of he specific debates that we have had over the years but when I write about it I seem to be even more clearly right than when the original argument occurred.  Needless to say that we have argued over philosophy, thought, morals, honesty, choices, how to stop drug addiction, and even judgments of others.

Needless to say these arguments have traveled with us from Belgrade all over the State of Maine as we have gone to different locations for work related stuff.  There are a few things we do agree on though.

*Greenville was a great place to grow up

*Our parents were pretty good people

*The Patriots and Red Sox are awesome

Having had some experience with people that are friendly to you face, but not really a friend it is good to know that even though we argue all the time, it is good to have at least one friend that I can count on, no matter what happens.

So this argument has been going on for 41 years and even though I am always right, it still continues, some day he may even get the last word.

But not today because as usual I am right!!!!!

fortyoneyearfight
Always appreciate your real friends.

4 thoughts on “The Forty one Year Fight”

  1. Dear Jonathan, I like your website. It is fun, serious and reveals who you are. I share similar values about most of what I have seen so far. And I like your sense of humor. 🙂
    Thanks for inviting me through Intent.com.
    I am Enrella!

    1. Hi Enrella, thank you so much for your kind words! I am glad you liked it. As you said, it does show who I am, and if you didn’t like it well, ;-). Please leave all the comments you like, I would like to hear your thoughts about any of the writing on the site! Thank you again for visiting and commenting, you made my Saturday!
      Jonathan

      1. You are Welcome! 🙂 We have Film Festival going on from 25th Jan upto Monday the 4th and today I watched two fantastic movies. First one a Turkish film called “Watchtower” and the second one from Japan called “Odayaka”.
        Great movies! Enjoy your weekend, Enrella

        1. Thank you Enrella, I will do my best to enjoy whatever life brings me. The film festival sounds like fun. It must be nice to have a great event like that close to you. No film festivals here, just cold weather!! 🙂

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