All things are changing at all times. Absolutely nothing or nobody stays exactly as they are right now. Either things are moving in a positive direction or they are becoming less positive and your life is a reflection of the transformation you are currently experiencing.
Personal wealth, health, and relationships are developing each day and your choices fuel that process one way or another. Fortunately, we are creators and can take charge of the transformation process. Here are 6 factors that lead change in a positive direction.
What you focus on grows
If you are not where you want to be right now, one of the first places to look for change is in your attitude. Often your focus will determine where you are in life, focusing on what you don’t have or what is going wrong will invite more of that into your life. Focusing on the things that you want in life will bring more of that into your life. Be grateful, loving, accepting, kind and understanding and avoid hateful, judgmental, angry or limiting thoughts and you will see transformation occur in your life.
Always be Better
In life transformation in a positive way is called growth. Each of us has the opportunity to grow each and every day. Growth sometimes happens naturally in life but more often we need to seek it. Seeking it can be as simple as spending time in nature, or sought in reading a book with key information that you need.
Or it could come through watching a video in the instruction of something positive. Growth provides excitement and as you expand into it the transformation is going to be a positive thing in your life. Growing is the force that brings your dreams and goals into reality.
Develop Positive Beliefs
What we truly believe colors our reality and dictates what we can experience. If your life is not moving in a positive direction then look at your beliefs. Many of our limiting beliefs have been developed through the conditioning of our youth. Parents, siblings, relatives, teachers, peers and the media have all given us the rules that our consciousness accepts as true.
It is vital to a positive transformation that we recognize the limits, and understand that we can change them at any moment. Developing these positive beliefs and replacing limiting beliefs allow a person to experience real and positive transformation in life regarding money, love, health or anything else.
Practice Gratitude and Appreciation
Another factor in positive transformation is to learn to practice gratitude and appreciation for the things that you have in your life. Looking at the good things, and being really appreciative for them will allow more of those things to show up into your life. Be a consistent giver of gratitude and your transformation will be moving in a positive direction almost effortlessly. It allows you to see goodness and by making a daily list of these things gets you to look for things to be grateful for throughout your experience. The human mind can only entertain one thought at a time, when those thoughts are negative, focus on things that you appreciate right at this moment. Appreciation will bring you to a positive level.
It allows you to see goodness and by making a daily list of these things gets you to look for things you are grateful for throughout your experience. The human mind can only entertain one thought at a time when those thoughts are negative, your experience will follow. Focus on things that you appreciate right at this moment. Appreciation will bring you to a positive level. You can’t be both negative and positive at the same time, you can only choose one and that choice is up to you.
Avoid Negative Influences
A simple method for positive transformation is to avoid negative influences in your life. It seems simplistic but looks at the people in your life and the activities that you participate and evaluate them honestly. If you have friends that are engaging you in gossip or negative talk about others, it is going to bring negativity into your life.
The activity which causes you to judge others is negative for your existence. Avoid these negative influences and add more positive things to your life. Either change the conversation with a negative friend or change your friends to those who are more positive. If you watch television which focuses on negative thoughts and feelings, watch something else. Positive transformation is as simple as changing the channel.
Be Kind, to Yourself and Others
Finally, being kind is a simple method to transform your life positively. Kindness is free, it feels good for everyone involved, it is fat-free and delicious. You can’t get or give too much of it. Judgments of others move us away from kindness and that moves us in a negative direction. Look at someone who annoys you or bothers you and then send them kindness and you will see your transformation take place.
Our judgments and anger toward others only hold us back. Practice kindness and send love toward others. That is also true in how you treat yourself. We are often our own worst critic and are not supportive at all. Look at the way you speak to yourself and temper it toward kindness. Being kind toward yourself is going to be an important factor in your ultimate happiness. When you have a choice between kindness and something negative (judgment, anger, meanness, etc.) BE KIND!