Overcoming Fear of Failure

fear of failureWe have all dreamed and attempted to achieve those dreams. At one point in our lives, we have tried to become something or create something and we have failed. Failure is a part of life, a consistent factor in achievement and how quickly that achievement comes will depend on how you react to the failure that you face. It hurts to fail, and the quicker you can overcome that fear of failure, the sooner you can move forward.

Happiness Inside Out

finding happinessI don’t know about you, but for me, finding happiness in life is totally dependant on my own perception. There seem to be two choices in life when seeking joy in life. Either I live from the outside in or from the inside out. The choice is one that dictates how large the portion of happiness I  experience at any particular time. But what does it mean to

Living in the Moment

living in the momentLiving in the moment is a lost art. So many people are living life, just going through the motions, standing still or worse yet living in the glow of past events. There is nothing wrong with understanding and remembering your past, but to allow it to dominate your current life through nostalgia, and thoughts of an idealistic past will lessen the joy you can have today. Living in the moment will provide happiness and satisfaction in each part of your day. In reality, it is all that you are guaranteed to have.

Voices of Ego

egoKeep an eye on your ego. What can you do right now that is going to change your life?

That is a question that more and more people are asking because they look at their lives and feel that it is lacking in some way. It is at this point that people start to look at the possibilities and almost as quickly as they think of something they would like to do, there is a competing voice in your head explaining the reasons why it is a bad idea. It is no wonder we are often confused and discouraged quite often. Learn to listen to your positive voice and ignore the negative chiming of your ego is one of the most valuable life skills that a person can develop.

Success Thoughts

success 1Many are looking for success and financial freedom and it seems like a difficult journey but there are some simple things that you can do that might help you get where you want to be. They are simple but they are not easy either. Here are some of those simple things that you can do to get on the road to success that you are seeking.

Hope

hopeIn order to keep moving through life, we all have to believe that something better awaits us in the future, we need to hope. No matter where we are right now, there is a potential for a future that contains anything that we can conceive of. This is limitless and unlimited.

If life is going great then it can get better. If things aren’t going as well as you would like, it can improve in the short order. That is called hope and without hope, progress is difficult to have.

Responsiblity and Actions

responsibleI have failed to be responsible in many ways throughout my life. I have been selfish, short-sighted, greedy and petty many times. These experiences have led me to the conclusion that I needed to become responsible not only for my actions in the world but for the energy that surrounded my actions or lack of action.

Possibilities

PossibilitiesThere are endless possibilities that exist in each new day. So often I look at life and see the obstacles in my way. The reasons why I can’t do what I want, go where I want, or be who I want to be. The barriers have existed since I was born, and they seem to be pervasive and permanent. If I never change my perspective of them then they will always stop me. How do I overcome them? Look at the positive possibilities that exist all around you, they are there.

Happy Times

you deserve to be happyDo you deserve happiness? This is a question that most of us ask either on the conscious or subconscious level and the honest answer we give too often is, NO.  This is a limiting belief that comes with us through our experiences that have taught us to expect less than the best. There is no reason to look at yourself and believe that you don’t deserve happiness. The only thing stopping you from living a happy life are your own negative stories that you tell yourself in your mind. You always have the choice to look at yourself with softer eyes and admit that you deserve to be happy.

Future Focus

forget your historyA limiting belief many people carry around in their mind is “History always repeats.”  As a former history teacher, I know that in the broad scheme of life, general themes in history do repeat themselves. However, this is not a given, it takes a combination of circumstances and choices for any event to occur. This is particularly true in your life, don’t be limited by the concern or fear that events from your past are simply going to play again in your mind. Forget your history.

Fitting In

everyone_fits_in_somewhereYou Fit in So Well

I think that all people at some time have the feeling that they just don’t fit in. It could have been in school, it could be at work or anywhere else in the world. Feeling like you are just too different to find your place  is a common belief but it is one that you should get rid of, right now, because that thought is only limiting you from finding the places where you do fit perfectly.

8 Lessons

lessons learnedIt is only natural to look back and reflect on the events of the year and place meaning with them. There are both positive and negative things that occur in a life, but there is always a lesson to be learned. There were many of these over the past year, some big and some small but all significant.

Goals

goal settingHow many times have you allowed the opinions of others limit your potential?  When I think of the wonderful people who I meet each day, I find myself being awestruck by the potential success that exists in all people that they can’t see in themselves. It is like looking at Michael Jordan who doesn’t realize that he is a great basketball player.  Greatness exists within everyone in one form or another and learning to listen to your heart and following your interests is all it takes to start to see this.

Empty Space

empty space inside of you
What do you fill the empty space inside of you with?

We each have space inside of us that exists for us to fill with all of the things that matter in our lives. From birth until we leave this experience people make decisions about what exactly is going to fill their empty space most enjoyable. All of the things we pay attention to and the actions that you take fill that space. As we grow older the decisions about the space are going to be more important. Things that filled our space when we were 20 years old, no longer seem to fit and fall away. Events that filled our space are over and in order for new experiences and things to get in we have to let things fall away from us and move comfortably into the past. What is in your space that you should let go of? What should you keep?

Perspectives

512566070029080548_1356144434Bad days happen. We fall down, we make mistakes, and things fall apart. That is life, but it has been my observation that the people who move swiftly through these mishaps and enjoy the positive side of life have developed habits that are worth emulating.  It is easy to let negativity creep into our lives as we live day to day, but consciously focusing our thoughts on the positives that exist in life will provide value where it seems that none really exists.  Being in love with your life during each minute is the secret to happiness. Accepting the bitter with the sweet.

Hope

hopeToo often in life, I think people resign themselves to the situation. The way that it is right now will always be. If one believes this then there is no room for improvement, there is no hope. Things can change in an instant, and the things you dream of can come to you, today, out of the blue.  Hope is a powerful tool, that allows your dreams to be realized in a way that you may not have imagined before.

Secrets to a Happy Life

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Letting Go of the Past

letting go of the pastThe past is a constant companion in life, it is always there, reminding, motivating or even taunting us. The ghosts of things done, actions taken or not taken that have made up our lives. Reflection on these things allows a person to choose to be swallowed by the past, never able to move forward or to release the past and continue with new experiences. There is a continual connection between you and your past. Hopefully, by visiting the ghosts of your past will allow you to put them behind you and move forward into the best version of yourself. Letting go of the past will definitely set you free. These are some of my trips to the past that have haunted me on my journey that I need to put to rest once and for all.

Acceptance

Acceptance is the Opposite of Judgment
Acceptance means that you are doing the best that you can with what you have

Many of my difficulties in life have come from a lack of acceptance. Whether it was not accepting someone else’s behavior, my circumstances or just the way events have played out. My lack of acceptance has and always will lead to difficulties. Acceptance is the opposite of judgment, the positive side to that negative coin.

Moving Past the Judgment

2664d0e2789d58be9784c145b6b47963It is in our nature to judge others, we do it naturally, judging someone else’s behavior, actions, motives or past. It is a biological need to do this because it will help protect you from harmful situations and people and of course this is important to your survival.

It really jumps out at you when you observe people being judgmental about the behavior of others. It seems that today the judgments of others are high and the reactions to others are based on  blind judgment and hate, it stands out and makes you wonder why it is that way. When you judge someone else in this manner you define yourself, not them. I think it is important to remember this.